in reply to kwai.
well,i decided to help my girlfriend reply because its paining me to see her at loss of how to express herself. i published the draft she typed first and decided to type a separate entry to reply you instead.

firstly,i wanna say yes,you're absolutely right in saying that her bestfriend has a right to decide who she wants to love,everyone has the equal rights. and nobody said her bestfriend was wrong anyway. she's absolutely right in choosing to love whoever she wants to and nobody has the right to stop her. but i guess you missed the point. the point isn't whether her bestfriend is together with you or not,and glynis definitely isnt angry because of this. the point is that glynis felt that her bestfriend betrayed her trust. that's two separate matters altogether. i'm an outsider,i shouldnt be even typing this now. which is why i never commented explicitly,i gave general comments. there's no point in saying who's blaming who and who shld be the one to be blamed. but since now you're helping your gf speak up,i think i do have the right to stand up for my gf as well. i'm not gonna side glynis just because she's my gf. i'm just gonna talk reason.

you shld know glynis as much as i know her,or perhaps you know her even better. and you shld know wat kinda person she is,she's not those unreasonable type of person. she wont get angry for no reasons. yes,she did say she wanna bitch-slap her bestfriend,but fact is she didnt. she's alr trying very hard to accept this matter and try to mend the friendship back to wat it was like. and its no mean feat,its definitely hell for her as well. if she didnt treasure all this friendship,she'll not be even affected at all. trust me when i say that if i knew glynis was gonna bitch slap her bestfriend,i'd definitely stop her. i'd not let her do that,that's for sure. this is a blog,an online diary. a diary is a place where people vent their emotions,she typed all this out because she was feeling like this at that very precise moment,its only human to feel isnt it? so you shld know that she was only feeling that way,and not that she was gonna do that in real. i'd definitely not let my gf do anything stupid. you can trust me on that. but i just felt that you're not subjective enough,you were being objective because her bestfriend is your gf.

really,i'd say its normal to wanna help your own gf,but only when things get out of hand. she's trying to salvage all this,tell me,did my gf even make any wrong move? put yourself in my gf's shoe. if your ex gf,someone whom you loved with all you could before,were to get together with your bestfriend,someone whom you trust with your life,wat would you have done? naturally you'd say you'll give them your blessings and wish them all the best? but,can you really do that? you'll have to go thru it yourself before you'll even truly understand how you'd truly feel. i'm not trying to say you're wrong in saying what you did,but perhaps you should be fair in your words. my girfriend didnt say she wasnt gonna bless you guys. she said she does,i think she's done what a friend should. she's just utterly disappointed,hurt. which i think is normal? who wouldn't? at least she kept her cool,she didnt blow up at her bestfriend nor did she beat her up or anything. she isnt treating her bestfriend any differently either,at least none that i saw.

anyway,that's abt all i wanna say abt this. i hope there's no offence taken,all the best to you guys. -xavier.

8:28 PM
Mend this broken thing./
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